20 Best Books On Manhood (2023 Update)

What it means to be a manraising up men has never been easy, but today is seems particularly tough. the young and old need heroes to embody the eternal qualities of manhood: honor, duty, valor, and integrity. bennett points the way, offering a positive, encouraging, uplifting, realizable idea of manhood, redolent of history and human nature, and practical for contemporary life.using profiles, stories, letters, poems, essays, historical vignettes, and myths to bring his subject to life, the book of man defines what a man should be, how he should live, and to what he should aspire in several key areas of life: war, work, leisure, and more.

Men are in crisis. from every direction, they are presented with a deformed masculinity. one that sees women as conquests rather than partners. one that values success at work over success at home. one that hinders true and open friendships with other men who hold them up and hold them accountable. one that presents them as either the bumbling, disconnected dad in sitcoms or the predator in movies and video games (and the news). men were made for more than this. it's time to rekindle the fire living inside of them and awaken them to the value of valiant, righteous manhood.through inspiring stories and hard-hitting biblical truths, stephen mansfield uncovers the seven fires that ought to burn in a man's soul–the fires of destiny, heritage, friendship, love, battle, legacy, and god. this raw guide to the restoration of a noble, honorable manhood will challenge men of every generation to live well, invest in others, and leave a powerful legacy." stephen mansfield is going to make this clear . . . and he's going to call you to be the man you are meant to be."–from the foreword by scott hamilton, four-time national and world champion and olympic gold medalist"a brilliant and absolutely essential book! mansfield's prose cuts through the cultural darkness like a lighthouse shining across a storm-tossed sea."–brad thor, #1 new york times bestselling author"my friend dr. stephen mansfield's new book, men on fire, takes us back to the kind of timeless knowledge, wisdom, and truth that have served as a guide for countless generations of men throughout history. it will inspire you to awaken that age-old drive and restore that inner voice that says, 'i can do this. thank god for another chance.'"–darrell green, member of the pro football hall of fame and the nfl 100 all-time team"there is a war on masculinity today, one that is leaving males with neither the knowledge nor the drive to become men. seductive sirens of secular socialism lure them into settling to be either thugs or wimps. men on fire is both the roadmap and the antidote. for all of our sakes, place this book in the hands of the men you most care about."–rabbi daniel lapin, author, tv host, and president of the american alliance of jews and christians

"though much has changed in society since the first publication of the way of the superior man, men of all ages still 'tussle with the challenges of women, work, and sexual desire.' including an all new preface by author david deida, this 20th anniversary edition of the classic guide for men offers the next generation the opportunity to cultivate trust in the moment and put forth the best versions of themselves in an ever changing world. in the way of the superior man, deida explores the most important issues in men's lives — from career and family to women and intimacy to love and spirituality — to offer a practical guidebook for living a masculine life of integrity, authenticity, and freedom. join this bestselling author and internationally renowned expert on sexual spirituality for straightforward advice, empowering skills, body practices, and more to help you realize a life of fulfillment, immediately and without compromise."–page [4] of cover.

"what is masculinity? ask ten men and you'll get ten vague, conflicting answers. unlike any book of its kind, the way of men offers a simple, straightforward answer-without getting bogged down in religion, morality, or politics. it's a guide for understanding who men have been and the challenges men face today. the way of men captures the silent, stifling rage of men everywhere who find themselves at odds with the over-regulated, over-civilized, politically correct modern world. if you've ever closed your eyes and wished for one day as a lion, this book is for you."–publisher description.

From nfl player turned film and tv star terry crews comes a wise and warmhearted memoir chronicling his lifelong quest to become a good man, loving husband, and responsible father. what does it mean to be a man? terry crews, tv’s iconic “old spice guy” and co-star of the hit golden globe award–winning series brooklyn nine-nine, has spent decades seeking the answer to that question. in manhood, he shares what he’s learned, telling the amazing story of his rise to fame and offering straight-talking advice for men and the women who love them. a self-described “super-driven superstar alpha male,” terry crews embodies the manly ideal for millions worldwide. but as he looks back on his difficult childhood and shares hard-learned lessons from the many humbling experiences he endured to get where he is today, he shows how his own conception of manhood is constantly evolving. crews offers up a lively, clear-eyed account of the ups and downs of his twenty-five-year marriage, revealing the relationship secrets that have kept it going—and the one dark secret that nearly tore it apart. along the way, he shares his evolving appreciation for looking good, staying fit, and getting it done for the people you love. being a man is about more than keeping your core strong. it’s about keeping your core values stronger. with insightful observations on spirituality, work, and family, terry crews shows men how to face their inner demons, seek forgiveness from those they’ve wronged, and tear down the walls that prevent them from forging meaningful relationships with others. from the nfl gridiron to the hollywood backlot, terry crews has survived it all with his sense of humor—and his marriage—intact. in manhood he shows men everywhere that real strength is not measured in muscle mass—unless that muscle is the heart.

A real man masters maximized living maximize your life, as millions of men have worldwide, by studying the christian classic maximized manhood! edwin louis cole, the "father of the christian men's movement," spoke with a prophetic voice to men. just months before leaving earth for heaven, he revised his signature work, adding five crucial chapters he believed would strengthen maximized manhood for the next generation. almost two million copies of maximized manhood and its curriculum are in circulation today in more than forty languages. cole and his wife nancy served the lord in ministry for more than fifty years. the ministry they co-founded with their son paul, christian men's network, still strengthens men worldwide with the reality that "manhood and christlikeness are synonymous." the best-selling book for men in the world…just got better!

Society today rejects the idea of absolute truth and is openly hostile toward god. for boys who want to be more like christ, going through adolescence in this culture is like crossing a minefield without a map.they need parents and youth workers to engage with them early and equip them with the skills needed to thrive.checkpoints plots a course through this enemy territory that not only steers young men toward godliness but also explains how to avoid potential pitfalls.and they will listen, because checkpoints honestly talks about the core issues they face, opening a vital dialogue between fathers and sons, pastors and students. – created by student pastors with 20+ years in ministry – 8 lessons – written in a devotional style – guys spend just 15 minutes each day to prepare them for their small group time.

Everyone needs to love and be loved—even men. but to know love, men must be able to look at the ways that patriarchal culture keeps them from knowing themselves, from being in touch with their feelings, from loving.in the will to change, bell hooks gets to the heart of the matter and shows men how to express the emotions that are a fundamental part of who they are—whatever their age, marital status, ethnicity, or sexual orientation. but toxic masculinity punishes those fundamental emotions, and it’s so deeply ingrained in our society that it’s hard for men to not comply—but hooks wants to help change that. with trademark candor and fierce intelligence, hooks addresses the most common concerns of men, such as fear of intimacy and loss of their patriarchal place in society, in new and challenging ways. she believes men can find the way to spiritual unity by getting back in touch with the emotionally open part of themselves—and lay claim to the rich and rewarding inner lives that have historically been the exclusive province of women. a brave and astonishing work, the will to change is designed to help men reclaim the best part of themselves.

What does it mean to be a real man? when society looks at you, do they see an honest and trustworthy individual? does your spouse view you as the pastor, protector, and provider of the home? when your mother looks at you, does she say "my son is a man of integrity"? have you taken the necessary steps to obtain this honorary title? there comes a time in a males' life where he has to make the ultimate decision: will i live my life as a male, or will i earn to right to be called a man! in "the 5 steps to manhood", baron warren helps his readers cross the finish line from male-hood to manhood. this step by step blueprint is a must-read for all males worldwide!

Guts and manhood: four irrefutable attributes of courage empowers men to embrace the courage to live life fully and fearlessly. his fatherly-coach approach also encourages men who may have found themselves struggling to stand strong and pursue courage with intentionality. author of the bestselling book, strong men dangerous times, jim's call to action stirs a trembling in the hearts of men who grasp that courage is a personal choice-so choose wisely and live courageously.guts and manhood guides men through timeless truths to cement a rock-solid conviction that courage is a sign of strength as well as a vital social character trait. whether courage has come naturally, was learned, earned or is a work in progress, jim shows men the process for improving their courageous selves.there is nothing like experiencing life at its most intense levels of courage. while that doesn't always mean jumping off cliffs into crocodile infested rapids, it does demand a departure from the mundane of the daily grind. jim ramos has discipled men over the decades from football fields to mountain peak hunting and is uniquely skilled at revealing the best of what's inside every man. the life of men entails courage-whether faced with wartime deployment or changing your first-born's diaper. living courageously is how god created men to be.decide to be courageous and become that god-made man!

A boy doesn't automatically become a man at age 18. what differentiates a man from a boy is the way he lives. a man has a vision for his life while a boy lives day to day. a man is a team player while a boy wants to be mvp. a man works while a boy plays. a man has the courage to take a minority position while a boy wants the reassurance of the crowd. a man is a protector while a boy is a predator. it's not enough to just know them. a real man aggressively pursues them on a daily basis.drawing from his own experience and the lives of others, pastor brian tome calls on men to examine themselves and take steps in the direction of a fully realized manhood that honors god, respects women, elevates others, and works purposefully for an end greater than their own satisfaction or pleasure. it's time for men to step into their honorable place in the world and lean into a new reality–one defined by strength, purpose, and honor.

Discover the path to true masculinity—to an adventurous life of strength, purpose, and clarity. wasn't there a time once when it was clear and straightforward? our vision is blurred, rendering the map that previous generations followed unreadable. our compass needles are spinning in circles, making navigation impossible. – it can be tempting to give up and, like so many men today, simply exist, but take heart: now isnot the time for men to abandon our quest. – in the dude's guide to manhood, pastor, author and dude darrin patrick charts a course back toward real manliness, mapping out a vision to help men find significance and influence in today's broken, mixed-message culture. revealing his own frailties and missteps, patrick doesn't preach at you but walks with you on a journey toward healing and wholeness. – filled with timeless wisdom, accessible insights and practical guidance, the dude's guide to manhood issues an encouraging and doable call to all men, whatever your age or stage.

"men were made to rule. they always have and always will. nothing can change that. nothing will. it is not a question of whether men will be ruling, but which ones and how." from it's good to be a man our modern society has called for us to "smash the patriarchy," and the church has not done much better. instead of telling men how they can hone and refine their aggressive traits, the church has told men that they should aspire to be meek servant-leaders, and when a man shows any signs of independence, he is shown the door. this leaves most young men lost. they don't know what to do or how to improve, so they watch jordan peterson videos on youtube to learn how to grow in their masculinity and sense of mission. in this book, michael foster and bnonn tennant remind men that their natural aggressive instincts are gifts from god that are meant to be used for the kingdom. men are supposed to found households, join brotherhoods, and work towards a mission. it's good to be a man offers men a quick guide to where they are and how they can improve. god made men to be strong and aggressive risk-takers. this is a feature, not a bug.

These days, it’s harder than ever to know how to act like a real man. phil have been spouting for years. now, renowned actor and true-life man’s man frank vincent, famed for his unforgettable tough-guy roles in such classic films as raging bull, goodfellas and hbo’s the sopranos, is going to show how any man can be all that he can be in love, work, play, and life. everything you need to know is covered here, including, getting the best women by being the best man, dressing like a champ and taking on the world, winning big money and big respect in las vegas, selecting, smoking, and savoring a great cigar, and much more. if you want to learn how to be a man’s man, you gotta learn from a man’s man. and with the great frank vincent vouching for you, you’ll be on your way to getting everything you ever wanted outta life.

What makes a man, a man? find out with this book packed with the best classic advice and manly wisdom of the ages—from the philosophy of aristotle to the speeches and essays of theodore roosevelt.for centuries, being a man meant living a life of virtue and excellence. but then, through time, the art of manliness was lost. now, after decades of excess and aimless drift, men are looking for something to help them live an authentic, manly life—a primer that can give their life real direction and purpose. this book holds the answers. to master the art of manliness, a man must live the seven manly virtues: manliness, courage, industry, resolution, self-reliance, discipline, honor. each chapter covers one of the seven virtues and is packed with the best classic advice ever written down for men. from the philosophy of aristotle to the speeches and essays of theodore roosevelt, these pages contain the manly wisdom of the ages—poems, quotes, and essays that will inspire you to live life to the fullest and realize your complete potential. change your life. become a man.

The world needs real men, real bad. and there are all sorts of conflicting ideas and messages about what a "real man" is (and is not). is a real man one who hunts, loves sports, grills meat, fixes cars, and climbs mountains? sure, sometimes. but that's not really the point of being a man and it's not the purpose for which men were made. into our cultural confusion, brant hansen paints a refreshingly specific, compelling picture of what men are made to be: "keepers of the garden." protectors and defenders.

The world needs real men, real bad. and there are all sorts of conflicting ideas and messages about what a "real man" is (and is not). is a real man one who hunts, loves sports, grills meat, fixes cars, and climbs mountains? sure, sometimes. but that's not really the point of being a man and it's not the purpose for which men were made. into our cultural confusion, brant hansen paints a refreshingly specific, compelling picture of what men are made to be: "keepers of the garden." protectors and defenders.

The pulitzer prize winning author — “an immensely gifted writer and a magical prose stylist” (michiko kakutani, the new york times) — offers his first major work of nonfiction, an autobiographical narrative as inventive, beautiful, and powerful as critics and readers have come to expect. a shy manifesto, an impractical handbook, the true story of a fabulist, an entire life in parts and pieces: manhood for amateurs is the first sustained work of personal writing from michael chabon. in these insightful, provocative, slyly interlinked essays, one of our most brilliant and humane writers presents his autobiography and his vision of life in the way so many of us experience our own: as a series of reflections, regrets and re-examinations, each sparked by an encounter, in the present, that holds some legacy of the past. what does it mean to be a man today? chabon invokes and interprets and struggles to reinvent for us, with characteristic warmth and lyric wit, the personal and family history that haunts him even as — simply because — it goes on being written every day. as a devoted son, as a passionate husband, and above all as the father of four young americans, chabon’s memories of childhood, of his parents’ marriage and divorce, of moments of painful adolescent comedy and giddy encounters with the popular art and literature of his own youth, are like a theme played — on different instruments, with a fresh tempo and in a new key — by the mad quartet of which he now finds himself co-conductor. at once dazzling, hilarious, and moving, manhood for amateurs is destined to become a classic.

Offers guidance to help african american males achieve their potential and fully realize their manhood, examining and comparing the actions of men and boys to provide a measuring stick to gauge personal development.

Offers guidance to help african american males achieve their potential and fully realize their manhood, examining and comparing the actions of men and boys to provide a measuring stick to gauge personal development.